Category Archives: What NOT to do

Being or Becoming Healthy and Strong…the Lemonade, Maybe

If you are an alienated parent your number one job is to keep yourself as strong, healthy and happy as possible. Why? For two reasons. First so that you can effectively fight for your child, and second because you deserve a … Continue reading

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I was an Adult Alienated Child – LONG version!

This post is long. I describe how and why I became alienated from my parents, and how and why the alienation ended. I write about how about the alienation distorted my thoughts, behaviour and feelings – how it felt hating … Continue reading

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Fighting Back using the Legal System – Part VIII

11. Inadequate or destructive court orders, continued: Different conditions prevail if your child is severely alienated.  When is your child “severely alienated” ? When your relationship has been disrupted to the point that interaction with you is either non-existent or … Continue reading

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Fighting Back Using the Legal System – Part VII

10. Even excellent assessments may be ignored. You may be rewarded to find that your assessor has understood the situation clearly,  has written an accurate and persuasive report, and has made recommendations that would really help. This is great, but … Continue reading

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Fighting Back Using the Legal System – Part VI

8. Time – Slowness and Delays. Time and space away from you are what the alienator needs to establish and perpetuate alienation from you. Time and space away from the alienator are what your children need to be free to … Continue reading

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What NOT to do

I will write in detail about the points below in future posts. This is a summary of what I believe is most important. What NOT to do: Don’t take the rejection personally. It is truly not about you. Although you … Continue reading

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